Tell the people you love, you love them.

Okay so this is going to be quite a upsetting/depressing thing to talk about but it has happened to me recently and it has affected me and the people around me and I feel I need to talk about it. 
One of my friends has been in a bad situation recently with his mum, she has been super poorly and I have been there for him as much as I can. My family has supported him all they could through this hard time. Sunday he came and told us she had fallen in the last 48 hours and she was on life support but she isn't responding so they were wanting to turn it off. Monday he went and turned it off. This was horrible to hear and to see how it was affecting him. 
I know this is something really personal and it must have been so difficult for him, but it really made me realise that people go from our lives so fast and his mum wasn't old she was the same age as my mum and its scary to think that people like that just leave this world without even knowing. It's horrible.

From this situation I have come to the conclusion that people who argue all the time and take people for granted are horrible. I don't ever want to argue with anyone again and when you are so far away from family or friends and you cant tell people that you love them but you really want to tell them that you love them, pick up the phone and call them. 
I am so lucky to have who I have in my life, my sister when I was 14 was diagnosed with cancer and she pulled through she was so lucky and I am lucky to still have her. There are people in this world that take life for granted and they really don't appreciate what they have and people don't live a full life and have to leave there families so early in life. 
There is nothing we can do to change other people lives but telling the people we love that we love them more often will make you feel better and make them feel better. If you have friends that you have not seen in a long time that you love and miss tell them, meet up with them, just find some time for the people that you love and the people you want in your life. Your real friends will show themselves and making sure that you appreciate them is important tell them how you feel and you want to spend time with them. Don't let it have been months and then when you finally see each other you both think, why did it take this long.

I know this isn't the best post but it was something that was upsetting me and I really needed to tell people that I know life is short but don't regret telling people you love them. You may love that person at the time and in years regret saying it but don't forget you will have affected that persons life and they will never forget you as you will never forget them. Telling that one person you love them will maybe help them when they need it most. Don't fight with someone you love and never hold a grudge if you love them tell them. You might regret not saying it one day. 

Please leave comments if you need some advice, 
All my love, Wade Wonders AKA Sasha xx

Whats In My College Bag?

As always I like to take things simple to start out so I thought that I would do a back to school/college what's in my bag. I started back at college this week and I wish I'd of known in school that people were making blog posts and YouTube videos on this would of helped me so much.

So this is my what's in my bag for my college course I'm doing Child Care and Education level 3 I did level 2 last year and it was so hard going from school and been there five years and getting used to having the same thing in your bag everyday to traveling one hour away and having to take so much different stuff. But now starting this year I know what I need to get me by and I'd like to share my knowledge with you.

The Bag
The bag is so important you have to make sure it is easy to carry and big enough to fit everything in. My bag is from Cath Kidston and I love it I have had it a year and it did me last year for college and it is still like brand new and I love it to bits. They have just brought a new design of this bag and in new patterns so if your stuck on a bag to get, get this on it easily fits one arch leaver folder and a normal ring binder and everything else.

 

 The Stationary
I know, I know you'll be wondering 'why I have two pencil cases and why I have so many colours?' I need all these colours doing child care requires lots of posters and making things so having my own colours is always good. I also like to underline in colours so I got thick and thin lined pens and then the Sharpies were on half prise at Tesco for £5.00 so I couldn't resist. Always make sure you have plenty of pens because someone will always ask for a pen and then never give I back have every essential you can think of in your pencil case you wont regret it.

 The Filing
When I was on level 2 I only had one arc leaver folder and that was enough but with level 3 there is ten times more work and it was important to find the easiest way to get my work to college. in my head I had this image of carrying three folders every day but then I found this folder with slots and I came up with the idea of writing my notes and putting them into this folder an filing when I got home. This has already in a week proven that it was the best way to face the folder situation its so easy because it fits my handbook and my paper in then I take my notes out of my paper pad put it in its slot and then file when I get home. So if your in a similar situation to what was in go and buy a folder like this its is the best thing I bought before I started college and even my friends at college has said that they are going to get one because it is such a good idea. My £3.00 folder is my life saver.

 The essentials
Everything in this picture is what I need every day (apart from the umbrella) because I travel one hour to get to college my book and a bottle of water are the most important for that hour. Such a long bus journey it can get stuffy so body mist and perfume is 100% needed through the day. My purse holds my ID, my college ID, bus ticket and money just what everyone needs to get by in the day. I always need my glasses at college reading from books and off white boards so they never leave my bag. tissues are needed at the moment because I have the worst cold ever so I get through like ten packs of these a week. If you live in the UK you will know how temperamental the weather can be so an umbrella is always in my bay even in the summer, Yes it can be that temperamental
 

 

 The Needs/Wants
My make up bag is my work I bought this for £2.00 off amazon and it is amazing it has my everyday make up needs and I take it everywhere you never know when your going to have a bad day or someone else is going to have a bad day and hadn't planned thinking it could be. I always take this with me and I always seems to be the one day I forget to put it back in my bag is always the day I need it. If you feel you need to take something like this but worry for space find a small bag and take what is most important don't worry about space throw it in the bottom of the bag if you need it that bad but don't have a bag small enough. If you need it take it.


I hope this helped you and gave you a little incite to what is in my bag. Don't forget to leave comments telling me what you'd like me to do next week. It might be a home haul because I'm moving rooms in my house and I'm re decorating and I get to go and buy new betting and décor so I'm supper excited. Thank you for reading it means a lot.

Sasha <3 xx

FIRST EVER POST!!!

Hello and welcome to Wade Wonders. I'm Sasha and this blog is going to be a little about life that I already know, things I've tried out and things I think are useful to you. I really want to try a bit of fashion and beauty but it's not my strong point but ill try.
There has been a lot of thinking about starting up a blog and I'm finally here after three years of convincing myself I didn't have the writing skills to do it. I'm finally here. 
My aim is to get as much up every week as I can but been at college again this year may say other wise. 
A little bit more about me. 
I thought i'd start the blog with 10 facts about me so you can find a out a little bit more about me so here it is,
1. My full name is Sasha-May Wade-Chambers 
2. I am 17 
3. I live in a small town called Chesterfield 
4. I have 3 sisters, 1 step sister and 1 step brother 
5. I have four main girl friends the rest are boys 
6. I'm a complete book worm 
7. I'm dyslexic 
8. I have a huge family both ways 
9. My biggest fear is been stuck in a lift 
10. I am one of the craziest people you will ever meet (So I've been told)  

Thank you for reading this post I hope I haven't been to boring and I can't wait to get my head thinking for the next post. Thank you.